Laura Schutte, relationship therapist

Sometimes we get stuck in a relationship, even when the sense of connection is still there. In those moments, it can be helpful to explore together which desires, fears, and patterns lie behind tensions or silences.
By bringing attention to ingrained reactions—such as quickly becoming defensive or withdrawing—you create space to listen to each other more consciously and to discover new ways of connecting. In relationship therapy, I enjoy working with you to recognize and break recurring patterns, so that you can truly hear and see each other again.

My approach is both empathetic and clear. I invite you to openly look at how you communicate, what underlying needs are at play, and what you need to reconnect. I also take your background into account: how did you learn to deal with emotions, intimacy, or conflict? And in what way are those experiences now influencing your relationship?

Clients describe me as warm and calm, with an open and curious attitude. I listen without judgment and, where needed, ask sharp questions that encourage reflection. My approach is tailored to who you are, your context, and your unique dynamic. In addition to discussing the challenges, I also consciously highlight the strengths and beautiful aspects of your relationship. This positive connection can be an important resource in the process of change and growth. Sexuality-related questions are also welcome. Themes such as safety, vulnerability, and trust are central in my sessions. 

Background

I hold an academic degree in psychology and have specialized in sexology. I work with both individuals and couples, in Dutch and in English. My style is personal, attentive, and context-oriented. I use evidence-based methods and provide practical tools to help you continue your progress outside of the sessions.

"Sometimes we get stuck in a relationship, even when the sense of connection is still there."

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