Sem van Oudenhoven, relationship therapist Eindhoven

Our relationships shape who we are as people. As a therapist, I help couples reconnect with each other. Every relationship creates a unique story together, and that requires a personalized approach. My goal is to support couples in (re)discovering their connection and developing the skills needed for a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

From a systemic perspective, I examine the dynamics between partners and how patterns are maintained. By using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples recognize their deeper emotional needs. This combination of therapy methods allows me to work with couples on both a practical and emotional level to strengthen their bond.

My approach is characterized by a calm demeanor, taking the time to understand what’s going on. With genuine curiosity, I probe deeper into what lies beneath the surface. While I create a lighthearted atmosphere, I don’t shy away from engaging in even the most challenging conversations. When necessary, I can be confrontational – never to judge, but to reveal patterns that hinder change.

Background

After studying philosophy, I gained several years of experience in the corporate world and as a conflict mediator. This combination of theoretical knowledge and practical experience working with people has given me a broad foundation to work with you. As a therapist, I bring a fresh and contemporary perspective, and my personal experience with multicultural relationships has given me a unique understanding of the challenges and richness that cultural differences bring.

"In every relationship you write a unique story together and that deserves a tailor-made approach."