Stimulate your desire: Love Learning 3

What if you want to feel the excitement of the beginning of the relationship again? In our third free online training, therapist Joey Steur talks about eroticism and how you build desire.

Quite often we hear from couples, “we want to experience that feeling in love again.” Paying attention to the small gestures can bring you closer together again. Discover in Love Learning 3 how you use those very small signals to bring back desire. Joey gives examples of the erotic bits you can give to each other.

Desire and eroticism

Eroticism is in something different for everyone. Many people may think of challenging outfits or exciting games, but erotica is so much more. And it’s different for everyone. From winking in company, to tickling your fancy. For example, with a particular scent that goes back to your dating period, as well as music or the atmosphere of a special place. It’s all about longing for each other and how to bring that about. Actually, it’s all the sparkles between you, apart from the physical contact.

Of course, it starts with the question: what is eroticism to you? What turns you on? What makes you alert? And what else at all? Engage in the conversation, tell each other. Or listen to the free Love Learning together and see what comes of it, what great ideas you get.

Retrieving desire: need help?

Would you like to retrieve the desire and receive advice in doing so? Then make an appointment to meet with one of our therapists. Praktijk de Liefde is in various locations throughout the Netherlands. And also discover the other online Love Learnings within our Love Academy. 10 short online trainings on topics such as fixing arguments, parenting and time together, and communicating better.

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