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Relationship therapy Amsterdam and other locations
In just 4 to 8 sessions, couples experience real connection again. Our therapists work from head, heart and body. A warm, proven approach that truly works. No waiting list: you can start right away.
You are not alone. And the fact that you are here is already a first step.
Together, recognise the ingrained habits that are driving you apart.
Discover what lies beneath the misunderstandings and what you really need from each other.
Strengthen intimacy and trust, in a way that suits you both.
We work not just with words, but also with feelings and physical awareness. So that change truly lasts.
We combine scientifically proven methods with a warm, personal approach. No standard tricks, but therapy that fits your unique situation.
All our therapists work from the same vision and actively support each other. That means: with every therapist, you receive the same quality, attention and commitment.
With us, you feel safe. We don't judge, we listen. And we help you step by step towards what you truly want.
Relationship therapy is not about 'saving the relationship at all costs'. It's about getting you back into a real conversation with each other. Discovering what you need, and what your partner needs.
“Sometimes that means coming closer together. Sometimes it means respectfully going separate ways. Both outcomes are okay.”
We work with head, heart and body. Your head is full of worries, your heart feels shut down, your body is tense. By bringing these three back into balance, space opens up for real connection.
Problems in the bedroom rarely stand alone. Often something deeper lies underneath: a lack of safety, unspoken desires, or a pattern that keeps you both trapped.
Our sexologists and therapists look beyond the symptom. We help you grow towards each other again. At a pace that feels safe.
The first step is a 60-minute intake session. You don't need to know exactly what the problem is. From the very first session, you'll receive concrete tools.
Thousands of couples came before you. Taking the first step is the hardest part — after that, it's easier than you think.
You don't both have to be 'ready' at the same time. Many therapy journeys begin with one partner taking the first step. Later, your partner can join when it feels right.
Whether you're in a crisis or simply notice things could be better: we tailor the therapy to your situation. We start where you need it most.
The beautiful thing is: most couples notice something shifting after the very first session. Not because we perform miracles, but because there is finally space to say what you truly feel.
Already during the intake, you'll receive concrete insights and tools. You immediately feel: here, I'm being listened to, and here, something is going to change.
Our approach is scientifically grounded and humanly warm. We combine insight (head), emotional connection (heart) and physical awareness (body).
First, we ensure you both feel safe to be open and vulnerable.
Together, discovering which patterns keep pulling you back into the same traps.
Learning what truly lies beneath the anger, frustration or silence.
Learning to be there for each other again, in a way that works for both of you.
Concrete tools to take home so you can continue what started in the sessions.
EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) focuses on the emotional bond between partners. The idea is simple yet powerful: when you feel emotionally safe with each other, much of the rest resolves itself. Not by avoiding conflicts, but by understanding what lies beneath them.
experience improvement
measurable progress
years of research
Your relationship can become a source of warmth and support again. Even if it doesn't feel that way right now. EFT helps you rediscover what seemed lost: that deeper connection it all started with.
It takes courage and a little patience. But the result — daring to truly be close again — is more than worth it.
Want to take a big step in a short time? Our Transformation Relationship Weekend is an intensive two-day programme where you work deeply on your relationship under the guidance of experienced therapists. Many couples call it a turning point.
Curious which format suits you best? Get in touch — we're happy to think along with you.
Over a thousand couples came before you
After just 3 sessions we already felt a huge difference. Our therapist helped us see the patterns we were blind to. We finally understand each other again.
Anna & Mark
Amsterdam
We doubted whether therapy was for us. But the warm, professional approach made us feel comfortable right away. A year later we are stronger than ever.
Sophie & David
Utrecht
The combination of head, heart and body makes this practice truly different. Our therapist understood exactly what was going on and helped us listen to each other again.
Lisa & Tom
Rotterdam
Always nearby, also online. No waiting list, start right away.
Founder, systemic therapist & author
Having guided more than 10,000 couples, Joey Steur built the largest systemic therapy practice in the Netherlands — with 9 locations and a team of passionate therapists.
Her first book 'Uit je liefdesdip' (Out of Your Love Dip), published by De Bezige Bij, became an instant bestseller. But Joey is more than an author — she is a therapist, entrepreneur, and a voice that is changing the way the Netherlands looks at relationships.
“Love is not a coincidence. It is something you learn, pass on, and choose again and again — for yourself, for each other, for the next generation.”
couples guided
locations in NL
Bestseller
De Bezige Bij
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Love takes courage. In Out of your love dip, Joey shows how to break through ingrained patterns and truly reconnect. Not just by talking, but also by feeling and touching.
With practical exercises and recognisable insights, this book helps you reconnect head, heart and body. Concrete tools you can apply immediately.
Whether you're in the middle of a crisis, want to deepen your relationship, or are building a healthy foundation as a single person: this book is an invitation to keep believing in love.
