Sex therapy at Praktijk de Liefde: Being able to be intimate without blockage

Together we work on breaking through obstacles that hinder intimacy, creating space for deeper connection and closeness in your relationship.

Sexology provides insight into the causes of these barriers and offers tools to overcome them. We help you step by step to overcome any insecurities and shame surrounding sex.

We are the only practice in the Netherlands with such a strong specialization in systemic therapy. You can come to us directly, without a waiting list. You can attend sessions during the day or in the evening.

Within a relationship, sexual blockages can occur. Perhaps you notice that you can no longer enjoy your partner's touches. And that something stops you from surrendering completely to your partner. That you simultaneously consider your own needs and those of your partner.

Why sexology? ​

Often this topic is difficult to discuss. To make this easier, it can help to talk to a sex therapist. During conversations, it becomes clear why a particular blockage is there and how it can be removed. How both partners can become closer again with self-confidence, and how you can expose yourself to each other again. Literally and figuratively.

Bovendien helpt seksuologie bij het identificeren en aanpakken van seksuele disfuncties die spanningen in een relatie kunnen veroorzaken. Het bevordert een open communicatie tussen partners, wat kan bijdragen aan meer begrip en intimiteit. 

This can lay a foundation for a stronger and healthier relationship in which both partners feel understood, respected and loved.

Sexology is therefore not only important for creating and maintaining a healthy relationship, but it also promotes the well-being of the individual. It provides people with the tools to understand and embrace their sexuality, which can contribute to improved self-esteem and self-confidence.

So, while it may be uncomfortable to talk about these issues, seeking help from a sex therapist can ultimately lead to a healthier and more fulfilling relationship, and a happier individual.

What can sexology help with?

  1. Sexual dysfunctions:
    This can range from erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation in men to vaginismus (pain during penetration) and problems with sexual desire in women.
  2. Problems with sexual desire:
    This may be due to low libido, differences in sexual desire between partners, or changes in sexual desire due to life changes such as pregnancy, menopause or illness.
  3. Sexual abuse or trauma:
    Sexologists can provide support for people who have experienced sexual abuse or trauma and help them process these experiences.
  4. Sexual orientation and gender identity (LGBTQIA+):
    Sexologists can provide support and guidance to people who have questions about their sexual orientation or struggle with their gender identity.
  5. Sexual communication:
    Sexologists can help couples communicate more effectively about their sexual desires and boundaries, which can lead to greater mutual understanding and satisfaction.
  6. Sexual education:
    Sexologists can guide parents and caregivers on how to talk to their children about sexuality and sexual health.

7. Sex and chronic illness or disability:
Sexologists can help people with chronic illnesses or disabilities and their partners adjust and improve their sex lives.

8. Sex addiction:
For people struggling with sex addiction, sex therapists can offer tools and strategies to regain control of their behavior.

9. Polyamory and non-monogamous relationships:
Sexologists can counsel individuals or couples exploring polyamorous or non-monogamous relationships. They offer help in managing complex dynamics, such as jealousy, setting boundaries, and maintaining effective communication.

Method of working sexology

To begin, we schedule an introductory meeting with one of our sexologists. This conversation is purely to sense if there is a click. Then we schedule a number of 65-minute sessions. During these sessions you will have the opportunity to put down everything that is bothering you with the sex therapist. She will direct the conversations and together with you get to the core of the problem. What goes well and what goes less well? Where do you have something to gain and what suits you best? The sexologist on our team will work with you to look at your needs.

Contact

We recommend starting with a comprehensive intake. In this conversation we get a complete picture of your request for help and specific needs, and you can experience whether there is a good click with the therapist. This allows us to tailor the counseling exactly to your goals and expectations. This intake is a valuable first step towards an in-depth, personal approach.

Prefer to meet first and get an impression of our way of working? Then we offer a 20 minute introductory talk. At Praktijk de Liefde we ask a fee for the introductory talk, so that we can start from the beginning with attention and quality.

You can contact us directly, without waiting list. You can contact us directly, without waiting list. You can attend sessions during the day or in the evening.

Any questions? Do you have any questions? Feel free to contact us by phone, email, or schedule an appointment directly through our online booking system.

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