Question 1

What is Praktijk de Liefde?

Accepted Answer

Praktijk de Liefde is the largest systemic relationship therapy practice in the Netherlands. With 9 physical locations and online therapy, we help couples, families, and individuals with their relationships.

Question 2

What is systemic therapy?

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Systemic therapy looks at patterns and dynamics in relationships rather than assigning individual blame. Together, we explore how the system around you works and what is needed to restore healthy connection.

Question 3

What makes you unique?

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Our unique combination of evidence-based systemic therapy and EFT, no waiting list, experienced NVRG-registered therapists, and a shared vision and methodology across the entire team. On top of that, we are the largest relationship therapy practice in the Netherlands.

Question 4

How many locations do you have?

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We have 9 physical locations spread across the Netherlands: Amsterdam Centrum, Amsterdam Noord, The Hague, Eindhoven, Haarlem, Nijmegen, Rotterdam, Tilburg, and Utrecht. We also offer online therapy.

Question 5

Who founded Praktijk de Liefde?

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Praktijk de Liefde was founded by Joey Steur, systemic therapist and author of the book "Uit je liefdesdip" (Out of Your Love Dip). Joey regularly appears in Dutch media as a relationship expert.

Question 6

Are your therapists registered?

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Yes, all our therapists are NVRG-registered (Dutch-Flemish Association for Gestalt Therapy and Relationship Therapy) or in training under intensive supervision of a registered therapist.

Question 7

How long has the practice been around?

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Praktijk de Liefde was founded in 2019 and has since grown into the largest systemic relationship therapy practice in the Netherlands with a team of experienced therapists.

Question 8

Do you work evidence-based?

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Yes, we work exclusively with scientifically supported methods. Our approach is based on systemic therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), two of the most well-researched therapy forms for relationship issues.

Question 9

What is your mission?

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Our mission is to strengthen love relationships in the Netherlands by offering high-quality, accessible relationship therapy. We believe everyone deserves a loving and safe relationship.

Question 10

Do you also offer individual therapy?

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Yes, in addition to relationship therapy and family therapy, we also offer individual therapy. This can focus on personal themes that affect your relationship, or on standalone issues.

Question 11

Are all therapists NVRG-registered?

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Yes, all our therapists are NVRG-registered or completing their training under the direct supervision of a registered systemic therapist. This guarantees a high level of quality.

Question 12

Can I switch therapists?

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Yes, if for any reason you would prefer to continue with a different therapist, you can always bring this up. We will work together to find a better match within our team.

Question 13

How many therapists work at Praktijk de Liefde?

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Our team consists of a growing number of experienced systemic therapists spread across 9 locations in the Netherlands. All therapists work from the same shared vision and methodology.

Question 14

How do I make an appointment?

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You can easily book an appointment online through our website, call us at 020-2101407, or email info@praktijkdeliefde.com. We try to find a suitable time for you as quickly as possible.

Question 15

Is there a waiting list?

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No! At Praktijk de Liefde you can get started right away. We aim to schedule a first appointment within 1-2 weeks, so you won't have to wait long.

Question 16

Can I also attend sessions in the evening?

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Yes, at most locations we offer evening sessions as well. This makes it easier to combine therapy with work or other commitments. A different rate applies for evening sessions.

Question 17

Can I also do online therapy?

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Yes, we offer online therapy via secure video calling. This has been scientifically proven to be just as effective as in-person therapy and gives you the flexibility to attend from home.

Question 18

How long does a session last?

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An intake session lasts 60 minutes. Regular follow-up sessions also last 60 minutes. For some special programmes, the duration may vary.

Question 19

Can I reschedule or cancel my appointment?

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You can cancel or reschedule free of charge up to 48 hours in advance. For cancellations within 48 hours, we charge the full session fee.

Question 20

What are the costs?

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An intake session (60 minutes) costs €179 incl. VAT. An evening session costs €199 incl. VAT. When booking an appointment, you pay a deposit of €75.

Question 21

Is relationship therapy covered by insurance?

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Relationship therapy is not covered by basic health insurance. Some supplementary insurance plans cover (part of) the costs. Check with your insurer whether relationship therapy or systemic therapy is covered under your supplementary plan.

Question 22

Can I pay per session?

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You pay per session. When making an appointment, you pay a deposit of €75. The remaining amount is paid after the session.

Question 23

How does the deposit work?

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When booking an appointment, you pay a deposit of €75 via iDEAL or credit card. This amount is deducted from the total session fee. The deposit is non-refundable for cancellations within 48 hours.

Question 24

Are the prices inclusive of VAT?

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Yes, all prices listed on our website include 21% VAT. The VAT amount is shown separately on your invoice.

Question 25

Is there a VAT exemption for therapy?

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Relationship therapy in the Netherlands is subject to 21% VAT. This differs from, for example, mental healthcare treatments covered by basic insurance, which are VAT-exempt.

Question 26

What does divorce mediation cost?

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The rates for divorce mediation may differ from regular session rates. Please contact us for a personalised quote based on your situation.

Question 27

What does the Transformation Weekend cost?

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The Transformation Relationship Weekend has its own rate that differs from regular sessions. Contact us or visit the weekend page for current prices and dates.

Question 28

What is relationship therapy?

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Relationship therapy is professional guidance for couples who feel stuck in their relationship. At Praktijk de Liefde, we work from a systemic perspective and look at the patterns and dynamics between partners.

Question 29

How many sessions do I need?

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On average, couples need 4 to 8 sessions to see lasting improvement. This depends on your specific situation. After the intake session, you will have a clearer picture of the expected treatment plan.

Question 30

What is EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy)?

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EFT is an evidence-based form of therapy in which we work with emotions as a compass. By understanding and expressing deeper feelings, space is created for genuine connection and secure attachment.

Question 31

Do we have to attend relationship therapy together?

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For relationship therapy, you generally attend sessions together. Sometimes an individual session can be a valuable addition — we discuss this together during the process.

Question 32

What is the difference between relationship therapy and individual therapy?

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In relationship therapy, we work with both partners together on the relationship and the patterns within it. In individual therapy, your personal development is central, although this can also encompass relationship-related themes.

Question 33

Do you also offer sex therapy?

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Yes, sexual issues are often intertwined with relationship problems. Our therapists are trained to address sexual themes and treat them as part of the therapy process.

Question 34

What is family therapy?

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Family therapy focuses on improving communication and dynamics within the family. We work systemically and involve all family members to work towards a healthier family dynamic together.

Question 35

Do you also offer therapy for singles?

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Yes, even if you are single you are welcome. We can help you with relationship patterns from the past, fear of commitment, or working on yourself so that you are ready for a healthy relationship.

Question 36

Is online therapy just as effective?

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Yes, scientific research shows that online therapy is just as effective as face-to-face therapy. The therapeutic relationship and the quality of the session are comparable.

Question 37

How does online therapy work?

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You receive a secure video link by email before the session. At the scheduled time, you log in from a quiet, private space. The session itself runs the same as an in-person appointment.

Question 38

What technology do you use?

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We use a secure, GDPR-compliant video platform. All you need is a stable internet connection, a camera, and a microphone. No special software needs to be installed.

Question 39

Can I switch between online and in-person sessions?

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Yes, you can choose per session whether you want to meet online or at a location. This offers maximum flexibility, for example if you are unable to visit the practice on a given day.

Question 40

What is the Transformation Relationship Weekend?

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The Transformation Relationship Weekend is an intensive weekend for couples where you work on your relationship in depth in a short period of time. Guided by experienced therapists, you break through stuck patterns.

Question 41

What is the Private Transformation Programme?

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The Private Transformation Programme is an intensive, tailor-made trajectory for couples who want to make significant progress in a short time. The programme combines multiple sessions and assignments in a concentrated timeframe.

Question 42

Do you offer divorce mediation?

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Yes, if you decide to separate, we offer professional divorce mediation. We guide you towards a respectful separation with attention to everyone involved, including any children.

Question 43

Do you have an online programme?

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Yes, in addition to our regular online sessions, we also offer online programmes and trajectories. Contact us to explore which options best suit your situation.

Question 44

What is the PdL Training?

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The PdL Training is our own training division where we train therapists in our systemic approach and methodology. This is how we safeguard the quality and consistency within our growing team.

Question 45

In which cities are you located?

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We are located in Amsterdam Centrum, Amsterdam Noord, The Hague, Eindhoven, Haarlem, Nijmegen, Rotterdam, Tilburg, and Utrecht. Visit our locations page for addresses and directions.

Question 46

Are the locations wheelchair accessible?

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Most of our locations are wheelchair accessible. If in doubt, please contact us in advance and we will check the accessibility of the specific location for you.

Question 47

Is there parking available?

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Parking options vary per location. On our location pages, you will find information about parking and public transport accessibility for each branch.

Question 48

Can I also attend therapy remotely?

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Yes, if there is no location near you or if you prefer to attend therapy from home, you can always choose online therapy via secure video calling. This is just as effective as an in-person session.

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