Systemic therapist & founder

Joey Steur

Systemic therapist, founder of Praktijk de Liefde and author of “Uit je liefdesdip”. With her team she has guided more than 10,000 couples.

“Love is not coincidence. It is something you learn, pass on and choose again and again — for yourself, for the other, for the next generation.”

Couples guided

Locations in NL

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About Joey

Joey Steur is a systemic therapist and founder of Praktijk de Liefde, the largest specialised relationship therapy practice in the Netherlands. With her team of therapists at 9 locations, she has guided more than 10,000 couples.

Joey's vision is that love is not something that happens to you, but something you learn and choose. That conviction is the foundation of everything Praktijk de Liefde does: from therapy sessions to the Relove app, from the Transformation Programme to her book.

Approach and vision

Joey works from systemic therapy and EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy). She always looks at the bigger picture: not just the problem, but the patterns and dynamics beneath it.

All therapists at Praktijk de Liefde work from the same method. That way you can be sure of the same quality anywhere in the Netherlands, whether you are in Amsterdam or Utrecht.

Book: Uit je liefdesdip

In “Uit je liefdesdip” (De Bezige Bij) Joey shares her systemic view on relationships. The book provides insight into the patterns that hold couples back and gives concrete tools to restore connection.

Available via bol.com and in bookshops.

Featured in the media

Joey regularly appears as a relationship expert in Dutch media

Jinek

Television

RTL

Television

Newspaper

NRC

Newspaper

De Telegraaf

Newspaper

Het Parool

Newspaper

Libelle

Magazine

Harper's Bazaar

Magazine

VICE

Media

5,000+

Instagram followers

500K+

TikTok views

Relove app

Together with her team, Joey developed the Relove app: a daily check-in tool for couples. The app helps partners stay connected, with features like daily check-ins, a conflict diffuser and a weekly reset.

Available on iOS.

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About Joey

Approach and vision

Joey works from systemic therapy and EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy). She always looks at the bigger picture: not just the problem, but the patterns and dynamics beneath it.

All therapists at Praktijk de Liefde work from the same method. That way you can be sure of the same quality anywhere in the Netherlands, whether you are in Amsterdam or Utrecht.