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Relationship Therapist
“I do not look at who is right or who is ‘the problem’, but at the dynamic that arises between you.”
In my approach I look not only at what happens between you and your partner, but above all at the whole you are part of. My view is systemic: you never stand on your own. Your relationships, your history, your family of origin, your surroundings, your beliefs and the patterns you have developed over the course of your life influence how you think, feel and act. Everything is connected.
I talk with you without judgement. I do not look at who is right or who is ‘the problem’, but at the dynamic that arises between you. Together we explore what is happening, where patterns come from and what room there is to start doing things differently.
I have had several long relationships myself and have experienced how complex love, connection, patterns and change can be. Today, together with my husband, his daughter and my son, I am part of a loving blended family. There too I experience that relationships are always in motion, and that everyone brings their own history and dynamic.
My many years of experience in HR have taught me a great deal about the dynamics between people, and how behaviour often has a meaning that goes beyond what is visible on the surface. I bring that experience into my work as a relationship therapist. I am curious about what is really going on beneath the words and the behaviour. Which patterns keep repeating? Which needs are, or are not, being expressed? What do you carry with you from earlier relationships or from your family of origin? And how do you influence each other, consciously and unconsciously?
Welcome!
Available for new clients from 1 November.
Our therapists are highly trained relationship therapists. We all work from the same systemic and EFT approach and are members of professional associations such as NVRG, EFT Netherlands and VVS.
Everyone follows the same quality standards and methodology, so you receive the same careful guidance at every Praktijk de Liefde location.
A trusted atmosphere where you both can be yourselves
Scientifically proven methods for lasting results
4-8 sessions for noticeable results, with tools for home
Included with your sessions
A small moment each day for the two of you, and help to start a difficult conversation differently. Two weeks free after your first booking, and 3 months of Relove Premium as a gift after session 4.
Direct access, no waiting list. You can indicate your preference for Anneke when booking.