When do you need a sex therapist?

Sexual problems are often difficult to talk about, even with your partner. Many couples wait months or even years before seeking help. At Praktijk de Liefde, we see that early intervention can prevent a lot of suffering. But when is it time to seek professional help?

5 signs that sex therapy is the right step

1. You no longer talk about sex

If sexuality has become taboo in your relationship, that's an important sign. Avoidance reinforces the problem. A therapist helps restart the conversation in a safe environment.

2. Sex feels like an obligation

When sex no longer comes from desire but from guilt or duty, the pleasure has disappeared. That's a sign that underlying patterns are at play that deserve attention.

3. There are physical complaints without a medical cause

Pain during sex, erection problems or orgasm difficulties without a clear medical cause often have a psychological or relational component. A systemic therapist can help find the cause.

4. You have a large difference in desire

Libido difference is normal, but when it leads to frustration and distance, professional guidance is valuable. The therapist helps you find a balance that works for both of you.

5. After a significant event

An affair, childbirth, illness or trauma can put pressure on intimacy. It's not a weakness to seek help with this. It's actually a sign of care for your relationship.

Sex therapist or relationship therapist?

At Praktijk de Liefde, you don't have to choose. Our therapists treat sexual complaints as part of relationship therapy. We look at the whole picture: the relationship, communication, emotional safety and sexuality. This integrated approach is often more effective than treating sexual complaints separately.

What does sex therapy look like?

A first session at Praktijk de Liefde lasts 60 minutes. The therapist discusses what brings you to therapy. If sexuality plays a role, it comes up at a pace that feels right for you. There is no physical examination. Everything happens through conversation, exercises and homework.

Do you recognize one or more of these signs? At Praktijk de Liefde you can reach out directly. There is no waiting list and no referral needed.

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